Meet other Gay
Many are looking for potential partners, but hey look at their profiles, Doesnt like chubby, not tall, not good looking. Or driving an hour to a gay bar since there aren't even any of those around. Volunteering is a great way to meet gay men who share similar beliefs and passions to yours. They were unexpectedly rewarded with broadening their social circles and dating opportunities with like-minded people.
Plus I didn't know how to spot the younger gay man or if he was bi-curious - so I was out of confidence because I was afraid of meeting a homophobic dude and get a punch on the face if was brave enough to go talk to him.
If you are gay and love to have someone to
Aside from a dating app, HER also acts as a sort of Facebook group for the queer community: Go to local events, find new LGBT movies to watch, bash the government, and connect with anyone who shares a post you like. If you have a local place of worship or other community-based venue for spirituality and you identify with what is offered, why not give it a try?
More than a few happily partnered gay men have reported that they met their man through this approach. I've been told that I am peculiar and quirky. In the age before apps and smartphones, I was single.